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Life is about choices...there are things that you know, things that you don't know, and things that you don't know, that you don't know!

 

Everything in the world around us began as a thought or an idea... first a thought, then a plan to bring whatever that thought was into existence.

We cant do anything without first thinking about it, so thoughts are what we are...the way we think is what we are, and Our thoughts are Our choice... and sometimes our thoughts are not our choice but injected by another source...

I can prove this because we will question our thoughts : Why am I thinking that way?

Sometimes we need to change the way we think about a situation

We are scripted by experiences, we draw conclusions and form opinions based on the experiences.

Sometimes we need to write new scripts.

A script is like a map, if you have an old map you wont be able to find your way around, you need a new map!

 

Human Beings: some have family members that they cannot dare speak to because the can't bring themselves to forgive them...OK they have hurt you, yes that is true...we are born into a family: the Human race we are all one family we are all related...I can forgive you...it hurts me to hold on  to it...

I can scream at you for the next 6 months and you cannot not change or take back the pain you caused me.

SO I MUST FORGIVE YOU SO THAT WE CAN BE FREE !

Human Beings:as a child perfect...a state of mind that doesn't consider what has happened yesterday, the past is gone, the past is 5 seconds ago...and who doesn't care about tomorrow...I shall live for today and imagine I am having fun right now, now this day I am having fun!

 Human Beings:as an adult has learned to fear...the only animal that kills its own kind in vast numbers without good reason...nor for food

 I have learned to change my vocabulary...to make a problem into a challenge...to provide a  solution with my thoughts....if my thoughts do not provide a way of escape or a solution...I must find another way to look at a situation....if it doesn't empower me, I change my thoughts and change my world...

If it doesn't encourage me I DON'T BELIEVE IT! 


I don't believe you 
I don't believe me 
I don't believe anyone else, if it doesn't empower me if it doesn't encourage me, I don't believe it. 

If my thoughts are not harmony, I am not thinking right...
and now I relax in every given situation... I relax.... regardless of the chaos in the world, or in my world...I unclench those teeth in the back of my mouth and FINALLY RELAX ! 

By my choice I relax

and again I say relax.

There are at least two ways to look at a situation
Don't believe me ?
Try to work with someone else...
There will ultimately be a discussion
Can two disagree and both be right?

Everyone is right in their own eyes. 

Your interpretation of any given situation is not necessarily a fact.

Make sure you have all the numbers to add into the equation.

Sometimes we draw a conclusion or form an opinion based upon one grain of sand not considering the rest of the beach.

In order to diagnose we need to know all the symptoms
Symptoms are only indicators....not facts
There are no facts, there are only theory's
And that's a fact.

The weather man is not always right
Nor  the doctor

The doctor says there's no hope...
Well I am here to tell you sir that I do not rely upon you for my hope.
My hope doe's not come from you.
My hope is an intrinsic force....its on the inside of me...it is internal and by choice

Hope is a choice

Happiness is a choice

Sadness is a choice

We make many choices 
We are the masters of our own world
By our choice and no one and nothing can stop us
unless you allow it, unless you permit it


You choose to Win
You choose to Loose
You choose to Love
You choose to Fear
You choose to Believe
You choose to Forgive
You can't win,  
You cant loose, 
You can't love. 
You can't fear
Until you choose 
You allow it, You allow yourself to Believe it
You Allow yourself to Have a good day
By your permission
Give yourself permission...Believe it

What is fear?
Fear is always the opposite of what we desire
It is the opposite of what we hope for 

Fear is:
False Evidence Appearing Real
F        E               A                R
False Evidence Appearing Real

a confident expectation in and for what we do not desire
It is believing in and for what you do not hope for with an expectation to receive it
Fear is the opposite of faith 
It is always coupled with doubt and unbelief 


Are you thinking right...A simple test

1) Do you have confidence...a knowing confidence?
Do your thoughts create harmony...do your thoughts provide a solution.

2) Do you have fear, doubt, and unbelief, do your thoughts create disharmony, and no solution

Faith is believing in and for what we hope for yet do not see.
it is believing in and for what you hope for and believing you have it...you already have it... now...Faith is now!
Faith is believing in and for the things that you hope for with an expectation to receive it now with no evidence to support it...you cannot see, taste, touch, smell, or hear it but you BELIEVE that you have received it now...you don't have to try to get it you have it now!

Whatever you hope for
Whatever you dream for
See yourself there
See yourself with the answer... now!
Believe it 
You now have whatsoever you desire
Feel it 
KNOW IT!


Hope is a confidence
An Expectation 
A confident expectation of a coming good 
It doe's not mean: OH I hope so but it probably won't happen.
Hope means you do believe it will happen

Pete Rose needed 32 hits to get the batting record,
The sportscaster says:
"Pete, how many times at bat will it take to get 32 hits"? 
Pete: "32".
You mean to tell me every time you go to bat you will get a hit?
Pete: Sir, when I go to bat, I don't just try to get a hit...
I Expect to get a hit!.
 
Turn on YOUR expectation.

Expect Me to tell you the truth:

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Share principles of philosophy, psychology, commuication, and nutrition that create the possibility of change from the inside out

 

The orderliness of the world of natural laws gives evidence that they are under the control of a universal plan.

Man is the only living creature equipped with the power of choice through which he may establish his own thought and behavior patterns.

You have the power to break bad habits and to create good ones in their place - at will.

You are where you are and what you are because of your established habits and deeds.

Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve.

Napoleon Hill

 

About Napoleon Hill 

He wrote Think & Grow Rich in the 1920's

His son was born with no ears, the doctors said: "There are some things on this earth that we can do nothing about, your son will never hear."

Napoleon replied: "There is nothing on this earth I can't do something about, if its just to change my way of thinking about it"

"My son will have 100% hearing". 

Napoleon prayed for his son 3 hours a day and his son developed the ability to hear with no ears!

A hearing aid company found out about this miracle and made hearing aids which gave his son 100% hearing ability!

Napoleon says this philosophy belongs to ALL

We Share his teaching Here

Look around the site it's easy to find... 

 

Don't take no for an answer...

Take KNOW for an answer:

If you KNOW you can, you can, If you KNOW you cant, you cant!

Shannon 

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